Prayerfulness
A powerful step on your journey to experience real love!
Now it’s time to delve within God’s heart for you and design your LOVE HOUSE™ to become your true sanctuary!
Proverbs 23:7 reminds us that as you think in your heart, so you are. If you think in your heart chaos you will be more chaotic, and if you think in your heart joy, you will be more joyful.
Take sometime with the Lord, whether that be your car, prayer closet, wherever you feel safest and most connected to Him. Focus on the things of God, fix your eye on Him, breathe deeply, and allow the peace of the Lord into your mind and soul. As you make this your way of life and posture of your heart, you will start being these things. This is where real love, God’s love, looks good on you!
The 17 Love Assignments from your Step 2 homework will benefit you deeply. Pay close attention to God’s wisdom, truth, peace, mindset, and Spirit, so that you can be well rooted in the the beautiful foundation of faith and truth that you have been pouring into yourself and your LOVE HOUSE.
Step 4 Homework
(Members Only)
Lesson 1: Listen
Lesson 2: Take a pause
Lesson 3: Find a space in your home…
Lesson 4: Find a moment …
Please remember…
Listen for the still small voice of the Holy Spirit. Pay attention to what the Spirit brings to mind and your reaction to these things. Ask yourself whether it brings you peace, joy, and comfort or anxiety, fear, and even anger? Remember, the voice of the Holy Spirit will never contradict the Word of God and the Word says the fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. If you are seeking the voice of the Holy Spirit and something comes to mind outside of these fruits, ask God where those thoughts are coming from and surrender them to Him, do not attribute them to Him. Often these thoughts and feeling that come up that are not of Him can be powerful windows into where we need to grow, heal, and seek his truth. Until these things come to light, you cannot remove them from your life by replacing them with His truth.
If you notice any thoughts or feelings of pain, fear, anxiety, or discord that come to you in any given moment, pause. In the Word, 2 Corinthians 10:5 tells us to destroy speculation and lofty thoughts that rise up against God and take every thought captive and make it obiedient to Christ. Instead of shoving those feelings aside to acomplish this, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you the root of them and ask for Lords healing power and truth to move into these areas. Finally, whatever is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, good, excellent, worthy of praise…dwell on THESE things (Philippians 4:8)!
Find a space in your home that spiritually represents peace, calm, and safety. If you don’t have one, create it. It can be a small space or even a special room filled with comfortable pillows a scented candle some of your favorite books or anything that brings you joy and happiness. This is a space you will go to for prayer and communion with the Lord. A place you can go to retreat and connect with the Lord on a daily basis.
Even if only for a few minutes a day, take a moment to thank the Lord and His Spirit at work within you or a the blessings that surround you. A daily practice of for just 3 minutes a day, align your heartbeat and brain waves to sync up and be on the same internal wave length It is amazing how God created our bodies to function between when we thank Him!
Your love life is not the place to take shortcuts, how you love is of upmost importance to God. When we shortcut Gods best, it shows up in unhappy and unfufilling relationships, which is what you are here to change! Therefore, be mindful and prayerful as you attend the virtual training based on each specific area of your LOVE HOUSE™ build through our Love Study events (see schedule at Upcoming Events). Not only are these private on and offline events fun, insightful, and ideal for meeting like-minded people similar to yourself, but they will also help guide you to build a better life and experience the mate God has for you!
- Listen to God's voice. Pay attention to your reaction to all things around you. Ask yourself whether it brings you peace, joy, and comfort or anxiety, fear, and even anger? None of these reactions are bad; they are simply teachers that show you the truth of where love still needs to move in. This is especially true if harmful energy is present anywhere in your life so that you can take action to remove what doesn't serve you.
- If you notice any feelings of pain, fear, anxiety, or discord that come to you in any given moment, take a pause and a deep cleansing breath, calm your mind and body, and know that this feeling is designed for love and awakening yearning to be heard. Thank it, and give yourself permission to experience that feeling while being mindful of the energy that you’re putting out. That energy focus should be love – to yourself and to others.
- Find a space in your home that energetically represents peace, calm, and well-being. If you don’t have one, create it. It can be a small space or even a special room filled with comfortable pillows, a scented candle, some of your favorite books, or anything that brings you joy, happiness, and comfort. This is a space you will go to for a self-loving spiritual moment of retreat to process your day, your feelings, and all of the changes that are occurring.
- Even if only for a few seconds, find a moment throughout each day to close your eyes and thank the world, your body, your mind, your life, and those that you love for all of the blessings that surround you.
- Your love life is not the place to take shortcuts, if you do, it shows up sideways through unhappy and unfulfilling relationships, which is what you are here to change! Therefore, be mindful and self-loving as you attend the virtual training based on each specific area of your LOVE HOUSE® build through our Love Study events (see schedule at Upcoming Events). Not only are these private on and offline events fun, enlightening, and ideal for meeting like-minded people similar to yourself, but they will also help guide you to build a better life and attract/experience your perfect Mate!
- To become a member of our exclusive club and to experience our private events, click here. Or just keep building!!
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