The Real Reveal®️
Real love starts with knowing God first!
How can you effectively attract, experience, or even be an ideal mate without knowing first who you truly are in Christ? What are your most fundamental needs and desires, according to how He created you? What example does Christ give us on who we are called to be and how we are to love? What are you emotionally equipped to handle, with a life rooted on the truth of His Word, instead of your day to day feelings? What stage are you at in your personal walk with the Lord, and what do you need to work on to reflect Him? How do you see yourself? What do you ‘truly’ want in a partner? Does that align with what God wants for you in a partner? Do you know how to be a good partner? All of this is crucial to know when seeking the love God has in store for you!
The Real Reveal®
It’s time to discover your ‘Mate’ type, the kind of Mate YOU are when it comes to love and relationships – along with the kind of Mate you attract (and why), and most importantly, the type of Mate God has waiting for you!
If you have yet to take the Real Reveal test, please do so now. Once you’ve completed the test, and have learned what kind of Mate you are, you will be ready to proceed to the homework section below.
As you may have noticed, the Real Reveal test is not your run-of-the-mill magazine quiz.
Co-created and endorsed by world-renowned authors and scholars in marriage and relationships, Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, this test was astutely designed by Kailen Rosenberg to have you dig deep within to reveal critical truths about yourself that have kept you from real love and the right partner, until now. It is only once you truly know and understand yourself (Ego, Life, Soul), that you are ready to experience and implement the love that God has in store for you so that you can build your LOVE HOUSE™, creating the space to let real love in.
Step 1: The real reveal® – Homework
Grab your journal and note what you’ve learned about yourself from the Real Reveal test when it comes to past or current relationships, how you may not have honored your true `value, and where relationship blocks may have occurred. This is a key moment for genuine self-reflection, as we all play a part in the relationships we experience
Be loving with yourself. This is not a time for self-shame but rather for compassionate self-awareness and the ability to make the changes necessary that honor who God made you to be, and to create the space for extraordinary love in your life.
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